You can get advice, and opinions, but you don't have to take it. Free advice? Keep an open mind but no so open that your brains fall out.
Along the lines of "look but don't touch."
When is he gonna sing? Blue Hawaii and Fun in Acapulco, he's doing something, then just starts singing. On a date that's just creepy. Movies? No one seems to notice . . .
In the early days of amusement park carousels, kids riding a circling wooden horse up & down, were encouraged to lean WAAAAYYYY out to grab a brass ring hanging out of a wall dispenser. Redeemed for a ticket, the next ride was FREE. It was a prize if you took and won the risk. Dangerous but VERY popular. See also Old-Timey.
I sing at Renaissance Festivals and it's a finite set. Once you learn them, there are no new songs. (Well, I do throw in Moody Blues, Jethro Tull and Rush but only in a madrigal way) And I really get down with Shakespeare tunes!
That's a lot of fun to throw a book, but where do the hand shadows come in?
This is for someone with A LOT of time on their hands for trivial decorations. Obviously, after planning meals, shopping for food, preparation and clean up . . . you also have to make the napkins look presentable. Is this before or after you chew food for everyone?
There are PLENTY of soul mates! Do you really think there's only one person in the world for you? Can you really find ONE true love in 7+ billion people? That's just setting yourself up for failure. There is A LOT of love out there, but you gotta go find it!